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November 29, 2012


Filed under: Uncategorized — thirdxlucky @ 12:17 am

Here’s an important thing about me. This is something that a very small number of people in my life understand, but I know it has confused many other readers, friends, and even lovers. This is the most succinct way I can explain:

I hate most of what BDSMers do.

But I hate it because I think they’re doing it wrong, not because I think it’s wrong that they’re doing it.

Most people who hate BDSMers would hate me, too.

Oppressions can be like Russian nested dolls. The enemy of my enemy is not always my friend.



  1. Reblogged this on That's Not a Kink Blog; THIS is a Kink Blog!.

    Comment by thirdxlucky — April 15, 2013 @ 2:34 am | Reply

  2. I’ve been running into this really hard lately – realizing that no matter how much I want to support all survivors, and all people against the awfulness of the scene, giving so much to people who not only don’t give back, but don’t see the space I exist in as existing, just isn’t something I’m able to do. I’m glad to know I’m not the only one with such feels.

    Comment by code16 — April 21, 2014 @ 3:48 am | Reply

    • For real. I mean, “everyone out there is fighting a hard battle,” y’know? But that means we can’t actually be there for EVERYONE who’s fighting a hard battle; sometimes we have to take care of ourselves and our loved ones first.

      Comment by thirdxlucky — April 27, 2014 @ 8:03 pm | Reply

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